Is
it allowed to hit frail old people? Most people will agree with me
that the answer is no and that you abase yourself if you abuse
others. But is it allowed to push them a bit when they are demented
and try to run away? And is it allowed to sell frail old people a
vacuum cleaner when they can not remember anymore that they already
have one? Or is the family member that cares for the older person and
deals with all financial matters allowed to use some of the savings
to have a well deserved holiday, “because mother really wants me to
do that”?
As
you understand the possible number of border line cases is
substantial and will only grow with the increasing number of older
people in the world. It is rather easy to abuse older people, even
with good intentions. Sometimes informal carers are so overburdened
combining care and work, that they become stressed and do things that
they later regret. Not everything can be avoided and arranged but
raising awareness is the least we can do. The Dutch government now
has a television campaign showing an example of an old man whose
model boat was broken by some carer losing patience. The old man is
comforted by one of the neighbours trying to find out what happened
after hearing the noise.
It
is good that the topic is also on the international agenda. Last week
I attended a symposium on abuse and neglect of older persons in
Europe. It was organized by the European Commission together with the
United Nations Human Rights Office. I represented the World Health
Organisation, as there are obvious links with ageing, health, care
workers, mental health and long term care. But it was also useful for
my next job in the ministry, where I will work on long term care and
the initiative to come to a new UN convention on older persons’
rights.
Different
panels discussed abuse and neglect in care institutions, in informal
and community based care and of the ways how to protect the human
rights for older persons. In the last panel, we discussed whether or
not we need this new UN convention on older persons’ rights. There
is no agreement yet in New York and I may go in August to the next
session of the Open Ended Working Group (the official name of the
committee that deals with this matter).
Another
important issue was how to monitor and improve quality in long term
care. That will also contribute to avoide abuse, at least in more
formal settings. The OECD has recently published a big study on the
topic, entitled “a good life in old age: monitoring and improving
quality in long-term care”. The report is about how countries are
addressing the challenge to protect life in dignity by frail older
people by developing measures to ensure a high quality of long term
care. Quality measurement in long-term care lags behind quality
measurement in health care (leave alone in other industries) and at
the moment it is difficult to make national and international
comparisons.
Hitting
old people is not good. It is a pity that there are some online games
where you can practice exactly that. Read this: “Your
friend wanted to take his girlfriend on a romantic ride through park,
but he can barely go anywhere with all those stupid old people
getting in the way. So he asked you to ride ahead of them and make
sure none of them ruin their romantic date. Your aim is to ride your
saqway and hit the elderly people to keep them in front of you.”
Not really the message we want to give to the young generation, isn't
it? As you can see on the picture below, there are other and much better online games available, where you can even play together with old people.